me before knowing i was gay:
- ugghhh i hate romance books
- ew no i would never get married
- why do every movie have romance in it *sighs*
me knowing im gay:
- WHERE CAN I FIND A NEW BOOK ABOUT TWO GIRLS IN LOVE
- i cant wait to get married and wake up next to my beautiful wife
- why is no one making a romance movie about lesbians
monop-olly asked:
toodrunktofindaurl answered:
Okay, story time.
My high school was a public school with only 3 people out of the closet. A couple of girls we all vaguely saw holding hands and kissing a few times but nobody knew them, and myself.
When I started dating my girlfriend during my second year, I was pretty chill about it, I didn’t really care and her either, so we just did what every other couples did. She was still very private in her own way so people didn’t come to her that much, but I had the reputation to be a little too chill about it all. After a week or so, every two days someone would come to me to tell me they were bi or gay, a lot of my own friends did. One of my dude friends even wanted to talk to me in private so badly, I thought he was gonna ask me out and I freaked out… I only stopped screaming “PLEASE NO” when he yelled “I DON’T WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU, I AM GAY TOO YOU DUMBASS” at me. All those people ended up befriending each other so in the end, we were a group of approximately 40 friends, with only like 5 totally straight people among us.
Our group of friends was very large so we were rarely all together, but when we were, well, we were kinda noticeable. So the other students started noticing too how girls and boys were holding hands and kissing, so other people started coming out in other groups and asked me about coming out stuff too. And it went on and on for a year. We started at 3 queer people and at the end of the year, the private High School of the same city was calling us The Gay High School.
Long story short, I was gay Moses in my second year of High School.
girls who love girls are good. lesbians are good. bi women are good. trans women who love women are good. girls loving girls is good.
Anonymous asked:
lenacorp answered:
i…….. i don’t even know where to start answering this question.
y’all straights had abby and marcus and lincoln and octavia, so why do you want clarke and bellamy? you also had quinn and puck so why did u need rachel with finn? there was snow white and david on ouat, so why did you need emma and hook?
but you have this privilege that you have so many straights on all shows, and you think that you can give us ONE couple on a show and you feel like you did us a favor. “one couple is more than they need” as if we will all automatically ship those two people and relate to them.
not to mention that a man and a woman just breathe in the same room and everyone is already like YEP SOULMATES, HAVE U SEEN THE CHEMISTRY. but two women can be perfect for each other and y’all are like “but they’re two women! we never saw them date other women, and besides there’s already ONE lesbian couple on this show so”
did you ever watch grey’s anatomy and see cristina interact with owen but be like “there’s already meredith and derek as a couple, so these two obviously can’t be a ship”?
have you maybe considered that i ship two characters, not just because they’re both girls, but because i see that they have chemistry and that their personalities match so well? i wanted faberry because brittana wasn’t really my thing. i thought that faberry were much cuter together and would match perfectly. when it comes to supergirl, i love sanvers with my whole heart. but i also happen to love supercorp bc i think they’d be a perfect match.
so, instead of asking why, i’ll ask you - why not?
Why are straight girls allowed to experiment with other girls, but lesbians aren’t allowed to experiment with guys?
If you’re a lesbian and you’re questioning your sexuality, it’s totally okay to experiment with a guy to see if you like it. You are 100% valid and you are loved.
If you’re a lesbian and you’ve been with guys in the past, you are still a lesbian. Your past does not define your present, nor does it define your future. You are 100% valid and you are loved.
not even in a sexual way but i’m just craving affection because i feel like crap i just want someone to hug me for a couple of hours and tell me i’m going to be okay
protect lil girls who develop early
they’re still lil girls who deserve to enjoy their youth
protect these lil girls from men who say shit like “no way she 13” and put the blame on lil girls who can’t help how they look and are just tryna be cute and have fun
Anonymous asked:
flowerais answered:
